Your Pally works with theirs.

Your partner should see more than a colleague does. When you add a Trusted Pal, Pally suggests a starting share for the relationship.

You pick your own share for each person, and every switch stays editable. They pick theirs.

You task your own Pally. It asks Sam's Pally, and Sam's Pally asks Sam. Each of you stays in your own chat.

1. Tell Pally who to add, for example "add my partner Sam as a trusted pal" or "add Ana as a close friend".
2. Sharing starts right away. Sam's Pally tells Sam what you shared and offers to share back. Sam picks what, if anything, to share with you.
3. If Sam is not on Pally yet, you get an invite link to send Sam yourself.
4. You task your own Pally. It works with Sam's Pally and reports the outcome back to you in your own chat. For several people, it asks each person's Pally.

Use a Trusted Pal for sharing that lasts: your partner, a close friend, a colleague. Their Pally works with yours in private, for every plan, without anyone else seeing the back-and-forth.

Use a group chat when everyone should see the conversation, or when the plan includes people who are not your Trusted Pals. Pally sits in the thread with all of you.

What you share with a Trusted Pal stays between the two of you. In a group chat, each person picks separately what Pally may share with the whole group.

You pick what your Pally may share with each Trusted Pal, one capability at a time, on your Pally dashboard or by telling your Pally. A new Trusted Pal starts with one share: searching who you know. Everything else stays off until you turn it on.

What you don't share stays private. Their Pally can't read your calendar, inbox, or anything else you haven't shared.

Every Trusted Pal starts with network search. Their Pally can search who you know by job title, kind of work, company, and the public profile information in your contacts, LinkedIn, and X.

• It gets back a name, a title, a company, and a public profile link. That is all.
• It never sees your notes, phone numbers, emails, messages, or how you know someone.
• An intro request comes to you first. Nothing is promised until you agree.
• You can turn network search off for any person.

• Your sharing is per person. Your partner's Pally can book your evenings while a colleague's sees only free/busy.
• When a task needs something you have not shared with that person, your own Pally asks you once. You can allow it once, allow it always, or decline. "Yes, always" saves a standing permission.
• Your Pally dashboard lists your Trusted Pals, each with what they can see and do. Change any of it there, at any time.
• Remove a Trusted Pal and your Pally stops sharing with them. What they share with you stays their choice.
• Your Pally keeps a short summary of each conversation with a pal's Pally. Your own memory is never shared with them.

Tell your Pally something for a Trusted Pal and it delivers the message privately to that person's Pally.

Anything beyond a message, like a booking or a request for something you have not shared, goes through their own Pally and their own rules.

• There is no shared thread. When everyone should see the conversation, add Pally to a group chat.
• Text data from iMessage and WhatsApp is never shareable with a Trusted Pal.
• Each Pally's work counts toward its own owner's usage limit.

Add your partner

You: add my partner Sam as a trusted pal

Add close friends

You: add Ana and Leo as close friends

Give it a task

You: find a weekend in january that works for ana, leo and me

Adding a Trusted Pal never gives your own Pally new access. Read the Pally privacy policy.