Your Pally works with theirs.

Your partner should see more than your colleagues do. When you make a circle, Pally suggests a starting share for the relationship.

Each person picks their own share, and every switch stays editable. A new member shares only their name and contact card until they choose more.

You task your own Pally. Priya's Pally asks Priya. Each person stays in their own chat.

1. Tell Pally who to connect, for example "connect my partner Sam" or "make a circle called ski trip with Ana and Leo".
2. Any member can ask their Pally to invite someone by phone number. The invite lands in the invitee's own Pally chat as a question. They reply "yes" and they are in. There is no link, no web step, and no separate approval when the circle's creator invited them.
3. Someone not on Pally yet gets a held seat and a join link that you send them yourself. Messages for them wait until they join.
4. You task your own Pally. It works with the other Pallys and reports the outcome back to you in your own chat.

Each person picks what their Pally may share with each circle, one capability at a time, on your Pally dashboard or by telling their Pally. A new member starts with their name and contact card. Nothing else.

Anything you do not share is not readable. Another member's Pally cannot read your private tools, like your calendar, without your permission.

• Your sharing is per circle. Your partner's Pally can book your evenings while your colleagues see only free/busy.
• Beyond your name and contact card, nothing is shared until you choose.
• When a circle task needs something you have not shared, your own Pally asks you once. You can allow it once, allow it always, or decline. "Yes, always" saves a standing permission.
• When Pally sends an email, posts in Slack, or books calendar time under a standing permission, it tells you after.
• You can watch the Pallys work in a transcript on the circle's dashboard page. Declined requests never appear in the transcript.
• Leaving a circle, or removal from it, removes you from every member's sharing list.
• Circle memory only holds what was said in the circle or explicitly contributed. Personal memory never syncs into a circle.

Tell your Pally something for someone in a circle and it delivers the message over a private circle thread to that person's Pally.

You can also hand their Pally a to-do. It runs in their own chat under their rules, and you get a one-line outcome back. You choose who may send you instructions.

Any member can propose a scheduled circle task. The creator approves it. Any member can mute it.

• A circle has no shared thread. When everyone should read the same conversation, add Pally to a group chat.
• Text data from iMessage and WhatsApp is never shareable with a circle.
• Location never gets more precise than a city or neighborhood.
• Each person's Pally turns count against that person's own usage limit.

Connect your partner

You: connect my partner Sam

Make a circle

You: make a circle called ski trip with Ana and Leo

Give it a task

You: find a weekend in january that works for the ski trip circle

A circle never widens what your Pally may read or do on its own. Read the Pally privacy policy.